Lonely isn’t fun. Too often, women will look past the obvious in a desperate attempt to create a relationship that simply isn’t there. Being aware of some of the signs of disinterest from a man is crucial to avoiding unnecessary heartache. When we waste time pursuing a relationship that isn’t meant to be, we might miss the good one that is.
When the nights get long, the wedding invites pile up on the counter, and your biological clock is ticking at deafening decibels, it’s tempting to panic and try to make a relationship happen on your own.
But you are a beloved, beautiful daughter of the Most High King. We’d do better to wait for the King of Kings to match us up with a Prince than trying to take control and do it all ourselves. That’s not to say we can’t put ourselves out there, show interest, and be available, but it does mean we shouldn’t settle. And trust me—going after a man who isn’t going after you is settling.
When you feel like you’re being ignored but then pulled back close, when you can sense that he doesn’t seem to really care, when it feels like your relationship is going nowhere…it’s OK to step back and re-evaluate the man you are dating. Here are ten simple—yet obvious—signs that he just isn’t into you. (Hear me ladies—that’s okay! Because someone else will be!) Be on the look out for these warning signs because when you see them, it’s time to start thinking about moving on to someone who can build you up and encourage you.
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